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a few words to sum myself up? difficult. i am a nice guy with a strong will. i feel that kindness is not the same as weakness. some have called me a “force of nature, ” i’ll leave that up to you to define. i paint, draw, redo furniture, illustrate, design and build stuff. i’ve renovated houses, redesigned rooms and built furniture. i've been privileged to have some of my work sold. i love to read and write. i like good conversation and learning new things. i try hard to honor the fact that everyone’s experiences are different so to keep my judgments to myself. i like sex but find it hollow when there is no feeling or depth behind the action- this doesn't necessarily mean i want to marry or move in with you. i have my kinks and really like trying new things- in and out of the bedroom. i am passionate, compassionate, exploratory and inventive. i laugh everyday- without it, i think my world would be color and flavor less. for the present, i am not ready for meeting physically for one-on-one encounters as i am still in recovery from severe abuse/rape. this does NOT mean that i am not willing (read: eager) to be sexual in other ways- just not up to meeting anyone in real-time just yet.
adele, alien, art of all kinds: drawing, blue october, carson mccullers, chelsea lately, china meiville, elliott smith, etc, etc., gay culture, gay porn, gym, interior design, joan didion, making stuff, mrs. doubtfire, non-fiction, painting, puzzles, refinishing furniture, video games, walking dead, writing